Depression, panic attacks, PTSD, insomnia and trauma are deeply embedded within us, so they can need more than one method to properly address them. Holistic mentor and success habit coach Edit B. Kiss guides people from misery to peace by masterfully combining ancient practices and modern neuroscience. She joins Irene Weinberg to talk about how she uses her professional training as a Reiki Master, Sekhem Healer, Karma Yogi practitioner, and neuro-linguistic programming practitioner to help clients deal with their inner burdens and experience a renewed sense of self – sometimes in just under 30 days.
IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL HEAR ABOUT THINGS LIKE:
- How Edit courageously stepped into her true calling after a 15-year career in petroleum engineering to guide people from deep emotional suffering to inner peace
- How Edit lost 40 pounds at age 42
- How Edit helps people to heal from depression, panic attacks, PTSD, and insomnia in 30 days.
- Edit’s five-step holistic transformation method blends emotional healing, mindset work, and practical action.
- Why healing does not have to take a lifetime.
SOME QUESTIONS IRENE ASKS EDIT:
- How do you blend ancient healing techniques with modern neuroscience to help your clients experience true health and wholeness?
- Why is it important to reprogram the subconscious, release emotional trauma from the unconscious, and align with the superconscious?
- Could you talk about how the body-mind-soul connection affects what’s happening to us and how we heal from that?
- How did you recognize your ancestral grief, and how do you proceed help people break those negative generational patterns?
- Do you believe that we can create joy even after profound loss?
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I Healed My Trauma Using Ancient Practices and Neuroscience
I hope this message finds each of you so very well. I could not be more delighted to welcome Edit B. Kiss, a remarkable woman whose life journey embodies the very heart of grief, healing, and profound rebirth. Edit, whose name means joy, is a Holistic Mentor, Success Habit Coach, a number one Best-Selling Author, a humanitarian award winner, and an International Speaker.
Edit’s Journey From Petroleum Engineering To Reiki Healing
After a fifteen-year career in petroleum engineering, Edit courageously stepped into her true calling, guiding people from deep emotional suffering to inner peace, often within just 30 days. Edit blends ancient healing traditions with modern neuroscience to help individuals overcome depression, panic attacks, PTSD, and insomnia. Her work includes Reiki healing, family constellation therapy, and emotional trauma release, all rooted in her own transformative journey towards health and wholeness.
As a professionally trained Reiki Master, a Sekhem Healer, Karma Yogi practitioner, and neuro-linguistic programming practitioner, Edit brings a powerful toolkit to her clients, helping them create the life they imagine, reconnect them with their inner strength, and experience a renewed sense of self. She’s also the author of On the Healer’s Journey and the upcoming The Gap Filler Success. One of the many inspiring stories Edit shares is her own transformation, losing 40 pounds at age 42, an empowering reminder that healing is not only possible but life-changing at any age.
I’m looking forward to talking with Edit, who is joining us from London, about the body-mind-soul connection, how and why she became a healer, the grief she experienced and how she dealt with it, and why mindfulness is important. We’ll also explore how Edit helps people to heal from depression, panic attacks, PTSD, and insomnia in just 30 days, and how she lost 40 pounds at age 42, and more, for an inspiring conversation, surely filled with wisdom, hope, and the powerful truth that rebirth is always within reach. Edit, a warm, heartfelt welcome to the show.
Thank you for having me.
You’re welcome. Your accent, you’re originally from Hungary, is it?
Yes, I am from Hungary.
Now you live in London. It’s fascinating learning about you. You’ve had quite an interesting life.
Thank you.
Let’s start with where you began. You had a fifteen-year career in petroleum engineering, and then you courageously stepped into your true calling, guiding people from deep emotional suffering to inner peace. Can you share with us that journey and how and why you became a healer?
Yeah, actually, the first step I think towards healing modalities and to actually understand this kind of healing, it happened in my twenties when I started to have panic attacks. During my panic attacks I first, I was given a medication, and then I didn’t like it. It even freaked me out even more. Actually, when I decided to, I was looking for some natural modalities.
How can I heal myself, feel better? I was using some herbs first to manage it. I also got into Reiki healing. That helped me to manage it. Then, so I was just managing it for like a decade with Reiki, with family constellation therapies, and with some herbs. After fifteen years, I was introduced to Karma Yoga Healing. With the Karma Yoga Healing, it started to shift many other things in my life, many other physical illnesses as well and other patterns.
It was so magical and so powerful that that’s what made me the decision like, “This is something I would love to show to people. I would love to help them with this modality.” it was like within five months, I literally decided to move to London to establish my healing business while I was still doing some engineering work for a while, for like a year, but I already made the decision because that tool, that modality was really powerful.
Why did you decide to take it to London?
It was a calling. Actually, after I did the meditation with the mentor in Hungary, I was traveling to London for an event. As I was sitting in the taxi going from the airport to the hotel, suddenly I started to cry. I’m not a crybaby, I don’t cry about anything. It was just like, “Why am I crying in the taxi? What’s happening?” suddenly came to me the word home. I was like, “Home? Where? Here in London? I don’t like London.”
I’ve been there a couple of times on a trainings and then I always felt like it’s crowded, it’s outdated, it’s, I don’t know, I just didn’t like it. That time when it came to me like “home”, I was like, “Hmm, is it London? Is it UK or what is it about?” I was just like, “Okay, relax.” It took me another couple of weeks and the months to actually see more signs more synchronicity started to come. I was like, “Oh, this is it. This is why I need to follow like the breadcrumbs of the universe.”
So, and then this started from the first meditation with the mentor, so the pineal gland activation which started to open up this portal and brought me all of this synchronicity. Basically, I was called to move to London, and then it happened back in 2018. Now I’ve clearly seen these eight years that why I had to move to London and how it actually shifted and changed my life. I’m really grateful for listening to this calling.
It sounds like you did all these modalities to help you heal and transform your emotional wounds. What inspired and enabled you to lose 40 pounds at 42?
That was even before Karma Yoga Healing. That was a year earlier when I was overweight. I actually quit 9:00 to 5:00 because of that. Not just overweight, I felt sluggish, I felt tired, I felt exhausted, and then I had a 5-year-old, a 4-year-old. My daughter was like four and a half and my son was like ten. I wanted to spend more time with them.
I had the mommy guilt spending all day in office and working hard. After office, I couldn’t feel like going to playing tennis or doing gym. I wanted to go back to them. It was like I had no time to do wellness for myself because I prioritized being a mom after work. It ended up being me eating unhealthy food as well and stressed out and then having an unhealthy body. I felt very overweight and sluggish and unhappy.
I quit 9:00 to 5:00 and then we moved to New Zealand because we wanted to relocate. The immigration office allowed us to stay there for seven months finding jobs and we couldn’t. During those times, I just actually did my Reiki Master certificate just before we left because I didn’t know how long we’re going to stay there so I wanted to do the certificate with the same teacher who did the level one, level two.
While I was there, I started to do Reiki healings on myself. My goal was basically to, to get a job or to stay in New Zealand or to do to reach our goals. That’s why I was doing the healing, but it was so funny because when I was talking to my Reiki Master. She said, “The thing the healing was doing to you is just accepting what it is,” you know. “Is accepting whatever comes, you still feel resilient, you still feel okay with it. Like even to stay or even to leave.”
I was doing these healings every day and then suddenly like after six months, one day I felt really weird. I felt like disconnected from Earth like in from the 3D and then I felt very weird. I felt like I’m leaving my body, I even freaked out. I had to do some grounding exercise and then as a result some programming happened to my brain which did not allow me to eat certain food groups.
Literally, I went into the kitchen and I had this, I felt this limitation that I can’t eat anything which includes white flour, processed sugar, dairy products and alcohol. Literally, I looked at those foods and I know, “No.” Later, my husband came with a bottle of wine, he put it on the counter and then I came to the kitchen and I looked at the wine and I was like, “This is on the list.” I immediately knew that I cut it from that as well. No alcohol.
It was really interesting because like when I looked at a donut, it seemed to me like a piece of sponge or like a soap or something, like something uneditable. When my brain knew that that thing contains one of those ingredients, it was completely shut it off from my senses to even have cravings. It was easy to lose weight and not to eat those things because it was blocked from me and energetically.
I was thinking that maybe I raise my vibration so high that my body rejected everything which was low vibrational food, and that’s how it happened, or it’s just like a personal programming, whatever it happened to me. Basically, it allowed me to smoothly get rid of like two, three kilos every month. It was like coming off of me.
That was happiness. What a feeling of accomplishment.
Yeah, and then eventually, like after ten months, the 20 kilos gone, it was like going from size L to size S. I’ve been size S when I was eighteen and then I was like, “Okay, it’s cool.” I was so happy.
I want to ask you honestly, what happened with your husband? He lost his wine-sharing wife, but then he gained a new svelte model that he was living with. How did he react to all of that?
Actually, we were not in a good term back then, because after coming back from New Zealand, he took a job in another town, and then he was still under the stress of the relocations and he felt like he lost the game because we couldn’t stay there. He really liked it there, so he felt like, not betrayed, but he defeated in that thing. He was a bit depressed and because of that, he was not a kind person to me for like couple of months, and then I decided I don’t want to take that kind of toxicity.
You don’t need him displacing that onto you.
Yeah. I didn’t want that toxicity, I didn’t want that kind of treatment and then we discussed that we talked about it. I gave him all kinds of ultimatums and then eventually I left with my children to here to London, yeah.
I want to ask you about your healing techniques, because you combine ancient healing techniques with modern neuroscience. For those reading who would like to heal in 30 days and work with you, or whatever, how do you blend these approaches to help your clients experience health and wholeness?
The main modality I use is Karma Yoga Healing. It has nothing to do with yoga asanas. It’s not about doing those.
It’s more about accessing our multi-dimensional existence. It’s more about going back to even past life traumas to heal, and this lifetime traumas to heal in the unconscious mind, also accessing the family unconscious to heal ancestral traumas and ancestral karma. What is happening during Karma Yoga Healing is we get access to this multi-dimensional existence and we are able to heal those, we rewrite the past, and then we create a brand new future because we rewrite the past.
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This is rewritten in the Akashic records, actually. Within this modality, I use the source memory healing for, basically if we deal with PTSD, for example, or depression. We use the source memory healing to find those memories which are buried in the unconscious mind, which is the core of the trauma. We release them, heal them, we rewrite them, and then basically that’s the clients experiencing a huge release, a happiness a joy and then can move on with a completely new future.
That’s the source memory healing. I also have other meditations in my meditation library for ancestral healing, for karma healing, releasing karmic debts, releasing ancestral karmas. It’s a very complex package because when I was learning this, I was actually attending several courses and several trainings of the same mentor. I decided that I’m going to blend it all together. I’m going to create a program when I allow my clients to go through it in 30 days and we don’t leave any stone unturned basically.
We go through this and then I realized that in 30 days they go from depression, feeling miserable and then end of the fourth four weeks, basically 30 days, they are happy, they are encouraged, they all see the purpose and their vision and they moving forward like, like crazy. They more fearless more empowered, more joyful. That’s the transformation I see.
= you do this both remotely and in person?
I do everything remotely. Everything is so remotely.
If someone’s in America and they want to, how do you help them heal in 30 days, you can work with them?
Yeah. I have actually many American and Canadian clients, I also have clients in Australia, in Asia. I operate everywhere.
Understanding The Subconscious, Unconscious, And Superconscious
This is a chance for us to educate people in a way, because everybody’s always hearing about the subconscious, the unconscious, and the superconscious. I’m sure many people are like, “What in the world is that?” You teach that most of our lives run on autopilot through the subconscious, the unconscious, and the superconscious minds. Why is it important to reprogram the subconscious, release emotional trauma from the unconscious, and align with the superconscious? Please educate us.
When we have some dreams, when we want to achieve something, that kind of thoughts coming in the conscious mind. The conscious mind is coming up with some idea, most of the time because we watching something we see an advertisement, we see some friends doing something, or somehow comes an idea like, “I want to do that,” or “I want to create this or that.” You have this dream. You have the subconscious programming which you received before you were seven years old. You were walking around in theta brainwaves. You were like a sponge and then everything which was in your environment you sucked in.
It’s the messages you got from your parents and all the people in your world.
Exactly, from school, from friends, anybody who were like an influencer around you basically. Culture, TV, internet, anything. Maybe you are shutting your room and then you were just watching the YouTube, then that’s your influencer not the parent. It depends whatever you were eat or consumed in that seven years. That formed your subconscious beliefs and then hobbies.
You can see children who’s having same hobbies as parents and then you can also see like how they interact, how they speak, what kind of beliefs they have about certain cultures, religions. It’s what their parents has or what their environment. Basically, if you have those beliefs and, and hobbies, then how they aligned with your future plans, are they self-sabotaging your future plans or are they actually self-sabotaging you to create or take those steps towards your future plans?
If you realize that you are stuck, most likely you are self-sabotaging yourself either with these beliefs and hobbies or other could be you have fears and you have emotional blockages, that’s why you not moving forward. You are having like traumatic experiences what you haven’t resolved and that’s why you getting always triggered because you getting triggered, you always feel betrayed, you feel like a failure, you feel all kind of negative emotions, anger, sadness, and that’s why you can’t move forward. Either these two things is what is blocking you usually from moving forward.
People are not aware of that, so you help them get in touch with that.
Yes, absolutely. Sometimes they don’t know like, “Okay, I know what I want. I’m taking action, but,” sometimes they kind of realize like, “Why am I overthinking? Why I’m not taking action yet? Why I need to wait another two months? Why I am feeling so upset once someone does this and that? Why I feel discouraged you know suddenly or why I am unmotivated?” There could be certain times when they feel like they not doing enough but they don’t know what is blocking them or why they can’t take that action or why they feel like they have the information what to do, they have the way to do it, but they still don’t take action. That’s already a sign that something needs to be changed within them.
What is the superconscious?
Superconscious is basically the universe and then when we having these big great ideas it’s mostly coming from over there it’s not your own little brain created that. When you channel when you see a vision or that’s coming from your blueprint which was already created by the universe for you so you getting access to that. The superconscious mind is also who’s kind of creating you some challenges through your karma. When you having those past life karma or ancestral karma, you kind of can blame the superconscious for those situations as coming back to you as challenges in your life.
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You get through what you do, you get them to get in touch with not only the conscious which they’re aware of, but now they learn about the subconscious and then they also learn about what the superconscious is doing for them so they can identify that.
With the superconscious, what is interesting, you learn also more like forgiveness, surrendering like you can’t always just push and move forward and override yourself overwhelm yourself, exhaust yourself because it’s not always the time to push. How to surrender, how to get aligned with portals. Certain numerological astronomical portals which again aligned with the superconscious. That’s important to understand because we are not a machine. We are humans we need to have that cycles and then we need to be aligned with the cycles to reach our goals.
How Body-Mind-Soul Connection Directly Affects Us
Now I want to go to the body-mind-soul connection. You talk about mindfulness that you feel is essential for each of us to understand. Somehow, I have a feeling that’s a little bit connected to what we just talked about. Could you talk about how the body-mind-soul connection affects what’s happening to us and how we heal from that?
When people have some issues like let’s say mental health issues like PTSD or panic attacks, sometimes they thinking like, “Okay, I need to work on my mind,” or “I need to work on my mindset or my resilience.” Very often when they have like harsh anxiety symptoms, it could be also because their body is lacking nutrients or their body is lacking vitamins or some supports which could keep their vessel much more resilient and stronger.
I realized it on myself as well and also on my clients that when they were having like iron deficiency or Vitamin B deficiency, their panic attacks was much more severe like it or other symptoms, anxiety was severe because they were not having enough nutrients. Also, the coffee drinkers should know that if you drink your morning coffee when you take your supplements, some of the supplements not going to get dissolved in your body because the coffee is kind of canceling them out. Many people don’t know that they just consume everything and they think this going to go on to the right place but it’s not always the case.
Understanding your body, your system, your physical body is really important to know what to consume, how to consume, what food is good for you what is not good for you especially if you already have mental health issues. It’s not recommended to drink alcohol or drink caffeine because that’s just going to make it worse. The body part, so I’m always talking with my clients about this as well what they eat, how they sleep, what hobbies they have, exercise, whatever, because we need to fix that as well. We are not just going and then straight into spiritual healing.
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That’s one thing. The mindfulness is the mind is like when we did the body part and then when we do the spiritual healing, when we healed the past lives and then we healed the ancestral karma and ancestral trauma, then we need to understand that they can actually mindfully talk to themselves that, “Yes, I am safe, I am secure, I am ready to move on, I actually feel great,” because sometimes even they go through those healings and is not going to come up, sometimes they wake up in the morning and they look and then they say, “What if I’m going to still have an attack?”
They still thinking because they were so accustomed to it, they had it in their whole life like or maybe for years. They are like, “Is it possible that today nothing going to happen to me?” they have that thoughts. That’s why is the mindfulness is great and I recommend to my clients that, “Put some sticky notes around you if you need to wake up in the morning and look at it like ‘I am safe, I am looked after, the universe is with me, I am safe,’”
The Gap Filler Success
Many people feels so alone. Often they feel like they are alone, they are unsupported, they are unloved. If you understand that you are never alone, you have your spirit guides, your angels, ascended masters, the whole universe is there watching you all the time, you are kind of like their little puppets and they just playing with you. Basically, then you know you never alone, you never alone, you are under watching all the time.
My story certainly, and our readers know my story, proves that we’re never alone. Look at what happened to me with that accident and all and what we’re doing now. I want to talk about your wonderful book, your new book. It’s called The Gap Filler Success and in it, you introduce a five-step holistic transformation method blending emotional healing, mindset work, and practical action. You blend emotional healing, mindset work, and practical action. Explain how this helps people move from feeling stuck to stepping into their potential, from feeling emotional heaviness to freedom, and from dreaming to doing, and anything else you’d like everyone to know about your book.
Basically, The Gap Filler Success, it’s simple steps to reach your goals. When I was looking at back my life and then I was thinking like how I reach my goals, I always was a was a goal-getter. I always set goals and then I was just going through it and I had strategic thinking and then doing when I was approaching it but I didn’t really have the awareness.
When I was thinking about writing this book I was like, “Okay, how did I do it?” that’s why I do like two parts of this book. The first part is for people who doesn’t really believe in spirituality because actually in the first fifteen years of my career like I wasn’t that spiritual either, but I still reach my goals I was still a goal-getter.
In part one, I put in the strategies, the actions, the way of how I approach things, what helped me, what supported me and what would be an amazing habit or actions to take for people who’s reading this book and to bring them closer to their goals. That’s the part one. The part two is for people who believe in law of attraction, astrology, numerology, healing, subconscious reprogramming to help them to get their goals because that was the other side when I already been spiritual and realized how much faster I’m reaching my goals when I add those into it into the blend.
Using that knowledge and using visualization, meditation, subconscious reprogramming all of these things and that’s in the second part of the book. There is even a meditation at the end of the book what people can use to parallel jump into their new reality and I also explain how the other things support that and how to take actions or what directions.
Why this book is so great is because I know that many people is sitting there, they have their amazing idea or they want to reach their goals and they don’t know what action to take next. They’re kind of like, “Okay, I would like to take this action but should I take this action or should I do that?” It’s narrowing it down for them to make it more simple like if you take these couple of actions then you going to reach your goal because that’s what I did and it’s worked so many times in so many situations.
You’ve seen all these people reach their goal in 30 days basically?
No, it’s not about that. It’s a different thing. The 30 days about when you feeling miserable, when you have a grief or when you have a depression or PTSD, then you actually do that 30 days program with me when I do one-on-one sessions and I give you access to my meditations and so on so forth. That’s the 30 days. The book is more about like reaching your goals which could take around couple of months to one year.
It depends how big is that goal. Usually when I had like big goals, I gave myself a year to complete them or now it’s sometimes it takes only 2 or 3 months because of the spiritual aspect but it’s or you can have like a five years plans whatever. This book is more like helping you to reach other goals even weight loss or it could be you know even your healing goals whatever it is, just what action to take, it’s really practical, it’s really helping a lot of people to put in practice what they just dreaming of.
Give us a client success story.
I had couple of ladies who were really amazing. One of them was really outstanding so she came to me with depression. We knew each other for years and sometimes people just watching me or knowing me that but they need an urgency to actually reach out and do the work. She had the urgency, she received a message from a doctor that might she has a cancer tumor.
She freaked out and she reached out but we also seen that she has other issues. She has depression, she has also other issues in her life which we should have taken care of long time before but anyway we started to started to work together for four weeks and then meanwhile we were working together, she got another message from the doctor that “Everything is fine, it’s nothing cancerous.” She already was happy about the new message.
At the end of the four weeks, what happened was a couple of weeks later, I’ve seen her popping up everywhere in social media and I was like, “What’s going on with this woman?” She was like launching a new podcast, she was writing new books, novels, children’s books. Within like couple of months she was publishing books, she was launching her, she was doing other stuff and then I was messaging her like, “Hi, how you doing? I mean what happened to you? It’s so amazing what you doing.” She was like, “You happened to me.” I was like, “Okay.”
Basically, this whole process opened up her completely, like opened up her vision, opened up her personality, she said she feels so confident now, she feels so empowered and just feels just rolling with her all of her ideas. She feels also joyful and amazing because she can put down all of her things in that creativity basically.
I had another lady she came to me again in a very terrible time when she was in the middle of a divorce, it wasn’t an ordinary divorce, it was completely betrayals all over the place, financial, whatever you can imagine. It was very ugly divorce and then she also went through a grieving her mom and then she also was in a bad relationship with her teenagers, whatever. It was complete mess, terrible situation.
She was still able to smile. She took it but she was suffering a lot. Basically, we started to work together and a year later now she’s happy with a new man, they are completely in love, she’s moving in with him. She was even moving back then. After the divorce, she was moving to a new apartment and she actually moved closer to the place where this man was living so they started to date and stuff like that.
Within one year, she left the apartment and moved in with him. Basically, now is a complete happiness because she used to have a toxic family environment after her mom passed away and then the whole environment and now she’s in a beautiful new family with the new partner and his family members you know accepted her better than her own blood family. Sometimes people confused about like how to react in their own family how to set boundaries, how to deal with their own family members and sometimes it’s you need to give up on hoping.
That they’ll change. They’re not going to change, you’re going to change.
It’s difficult and then sometimes you find your blessings or happiness in another kind of people who’s not blood family. I was lucky with my mom, I can say, because if you start your healing, take it really seriously and you start your healing, it can affect your family members and then they can change and shift but her kids were actually adopted. They were not bloodline so it was a bit different story.
The other thing is that my mom changed a lot as I was healing. I also introduced her to meditations and she also went to Reiki healings to my Reiki Master. She went through also healings but as I was healing our ancestral line, she also gets I think a lot of things from there because our relationship went from a lot of arguments and fighting to a very peaceful, now is like a best buddies relationship.
Getting In Touch With Your Ancestral Grief
Let me ask you something though, because people aren’t necessarily in touch with those parts of their ancestral line is toxic. That a lot of the problems that they got is from that, in a lot of ways, they protect the perpetrators or the people who were wounded themselves and did this. How do you get people in touch with that piece?
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Is this something like you would call ancestral grief? They have to grieve it, it’s a loss in a way. Tell us about that because I know you do a lot of healing with ancestral grief and the process of feeling, releasing, integrating and transforming seems to help people break those generational patterns and experience a metamorphosis. Can you explain that in layman’s terms for the rest of us, please?
Yeah, so when we working with ancestors, it’s really complex and you not doing it alone. You always need to invite like other characters like spirit guides, ascended masters and then you also include the supreme pure consciousness into that healing process. It’s a deeper healing is going through many layers, it requires a very profound healing practice or healing steps to actually get to the right place, release the right things from the right ancestors. It’s a step-by-step process as we going through in this healing and then as you communicate with the family unconscious, you going to be guided in that healing process in the higher dimensions to reach the answers and to release them and properly heal them.
Basically, you heal your ancestors and that’s reflecting down into your life. It’s really amazing how it feels because it takes couple of weeks sometimes. It’s so funny because sometimes you do the healing and a certain time and then like 2, 3 weeks later, something shifts like crazy. It’s because it takes a bit of time until it comes down to you.
It’s really profound, really powerful and sometimes it’s not clear that something which is happening in your life is ancestral related. When you start like looking into your ancestors, when you spend time to speak with your grandma or grandpa and then you finding some stories and stuff like that, you will realize that there is always a little bit of darkness everywhere and in everybody’s family. There is always maybe an abortion or there is a divorce or a cheating or whatever is going on. Those things is already creating ancestral karma and you can inherit those and that can also bring you challenges.
We talked about mindfulness, you asked me about the mindfulness and how it comes into the healing. You can also stop karmic cycles through mindfulness. What’s happening is how karma appears in your life? There is a challenge. There is a decision you need to make in your life. In this decision you need to realize if I choose this, I’m going to create misery for others and myself or maybe it’s going to be good for me for a while but probably the other people will suffer.
Do I choose that because I’m selfish and egoistic or I choose the other way? I give up on my desire because I know I would ruin other people’s life and then I actually allow it to how it has been or how it’s the best for the more people. I put away my egoism. When you are in that kind of decision and then you decide on looking at other people’s life as well, not just yourself, then if you take that decision, you basically break the cycle, the karmic cycle and then you won’t get similar challenges in the future.
For example, let’s say a very important, very easy way like you fall in love with someone who’s already married. That’s a karmic debt. You shouldn’t do that. You shouldn’t actually break up a marriage or desire someone who’s married because it can be a karma you already inherited either from your ancestors or from your past life.
If you actually do that, eventually that marriage is going to have some negative aspects later, some more pain, some more disaster whatever because it’s came from not a nice situation. There are this kind of or karmic debts is even being angry and then using harsh words. Lying is karmic debt. If you start lying to people or you feel like you need to lie all the time, there is always going to be situation you feel like you need to lie because otherwise there is no other way. There is always another way. You always can choose not lying, you always can choose to be nice and kind. It’s your choice to stop your karmic cycles.
It sounds to me like you’re making them conscious. It’s mindfulness because you’re examining, you’re helping them to become aware which they weren’t even aware of about how they’ve been affected by their ancestry, and this was very enlightening to me when I started learning and healing this for myself. They’re learning about the roots of some of their issues that they didn’t even know they had. Now they identify the issues.
An Offering From Edit
Now they choose to transform that dynamic to change that. Now they’re becoming conscious of how it’s affecting them and they’re changing it now because it’s not such a part of them anymore where they weren’t even aware. Would you say that’s a good portrayal? Now that everybody’s all tuned down and they all want to have a session with you, do you have a promotion or an offering for our audience?
Yeah, because I know that you also attract many people who’s already a healer or already want to be a lightworker. I actually decided to bring in a to promotion for my Karma Yoga Healing training because I also teach Karma Yoga healers. What happened in 2022 my clients started to ask me like, “We love this program, how we transformed, but I’m a Reiki Master but I want to provide this kind of healings to my clients.”
That was the time when my mentor passed away. I couldn’t send them to anybody where to learn it. I decided to create the program myself which I can actually do online with a wider audience around the globe. In 2023, 2024, I actually done a lot of live trainings and now I’m actually just selling it in the recorded version so you can enroll anytime. For your audience, I’m giving 50% off right now. There’s going to be a code, there’s going to be a discount code for the 50% off so they can learn the program from this training.
They can know how to do these healings, they can learn about the how it’s created and then where is it coming from and all the history of it and also after they practice in my community because I have facilitators who’s already done the training so they can practice each other and then they have an exam with me, a certification.
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Why Healing Does Not Have To Take A Lifetime
Thank you. Speaking of that, you’ve said that time won’t heal, that healing does not have to take a lifetime. Could you explain that to us?
Yeah, many people think that after a while, they feel let’s say more peace with something that happened long time ago and they believe like, “Probably I got healed from it.” Something happens and they got triggered and they don’t know that they got triggered because of that situation because it was buried in the unconscious mind and then they think that it’s something else what is triggering them or they got a disease and they don’t know why they got the disease.
I had a client who actually came to me after a heart situation and then it’s turned out that she had two big griefs. Her nephew and her brother died couple of years ago and then eventually she got this heart issue and then she actually left her body and came back and now she has a pacemaker. The heart chakra is which mostly affected by grief.
Who’s not healing the grief properly when it happening, when you experiencing grief and you don’t go deep into the unconscious mind to heal it and release it, it can eventually have a heart chakra issue which means a breast cancer, lung cancer, heart disease, anything which is related to heart chakra blockages can actually become a disease.
It’s a very good reason to heal.
Absolutely, to prevent diseases because people many times don’t know.
Finding Genuine Joy In Little Things
As you heal, it enables you to experience joy in your life. That’s my next question. Do you believe that we can create joy even after profound loss?
Absolutely. I’ve seen it in many people and in my life. Joy is one of the highest vibrational emotion like it’s raising your vibration. You can create joy just doing what you love. If you are mindful, mindfulness is also about positive thinking, positive emotions and positive actions so you know the consequences of your actions.
Basically, when you having positive thoughts about like the future or the present moment and you feel great about it then your emotions are positive then you can feel joy just looking at birds or you can feel joy just eating your favorite food or you can feel joy in just dancing or doing something really little. You can find joy in many little activities or many little things or even thought patterns.
It’s easy to bring joy. I encourage people that even if you are having grief or why you are down sad, I don’t recommend people to sit there too long because when you sit in your pain too long, you blocking your chakras. When you block your chakras again, the prana energy can’t go through your organs. They going to get affected and your well-being is going to be affected.
When you have the time or you have the strength, pull yourself out of the rabbit hole and count your blessings because whatever happened to you, I’m sure there is still blessings in your life. You can still count your blessings. It doesn’t matter how small it is if you breathe the air, you already blessed. Count your blessings, raise your vibration, find something little to feel joy because there is always around you.
Even if you’re breathing, that joy can still exist which is so important. Edit, I want to conclude our interview with this important quote from your book, The Gap Filler Success. I love this quote. “When you’re triggered, say, by betrayal, sadness or anger, those emotions are tied to unresolved memories in your subconscious. Healing is about going inward and releasing those buried emotions. When you do that, the triggers stop, the reactions stop, and you become resilient.”
“The emotional rollercoaster becomes a smooth ride. This is mindfulness. Living with awareness, managing your internal world and consciously shaping your life from the inside out.” Edit, your life journey embodies the very heart of grief, healing, and profound rebirth. Thank you for helping so many people find their way from deep emotional suffering to inner peace. From my heart, this has been a wonderful interview. Thank you and I wish you abundant blessings always.
Thank you, Irene. Thank you.
As I like to say, to be continued.
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About Edit B. Kiss
Edit B Kiss is a holistic mentor, success habit coach, #1 best-selling author, Humanitarian Award winner, and international speaker. She specializes in guiding individuals from misery to peace within 30 days by integrating ancient healing techniques with neuroscience. Her journey from a 15-year career in petroleum engineering to holistic healing exemplifies her commitment to transformation and personal growth.
